“You have how many children?” First of all, it is none of your business how many children I have. All five of my children are a gift from God. You do not know the prays, tears, and work that went we went through to have these blessings. I do not need your permission and no I do not need your monetary assistance. Our kids, our blessings, our family. Thanks!
PS. I dare you to ask my husband how many children he has in the same tone you feel you can ask me. Just saying.